For rejoicing purposes and a chillax moment, this post is about something light and refreshing avoiding the complexity of my manic brain. I will like to share my joy for this new book that has recently arrived to my home. It is called “Self Compassion: stop beating yourself up and leave insecurity behind”. By Kristin Neff.
Self Compassion is very hard to come by. In fact I strongly believe my level of compassion for myself is wondering around somewhere in my inner guts. I have also thought that being an Alpha Woman, who is strong and assertive, and had full control of herself with the utmost disciplined, was the only way to show slaves how to behave and serve me the way I wanted them to serve.
Oh boy! Did I fall in my face and smack myself several times. The key as I come to learn, lays on the secret of forgiving oneself for the past, the present and the future. And build up a layer of humanity and common sense through living life positively and with vulnerability. Oh, yes Doms have to learn what vulnerability means to receive it from their slaves/submissives. It is not all about vanity, narcissism and selfishness. This world is self as it is.
Final words, I promise. The reality is this. A Dom enjoys having control, power and authority over that other wonderful living creature we have adopted as a slave/sub. But, in reality we have to be very clear that if that servant refuses to bow to us. We are well “better off finding a pet that might try to give us some attention, while we go crazy over the lack of power discharge. LOL
I do have my funny side <winks>
Good night World!